Families go through phases that every member must adjust to. Parents learn skills of effective parenting gradually. All the books in print can tell parents how to be a parent, but it is up to each individual to practice the lessons they learn. Many parents satisfactorily adopt the examples set by their own parents. Couples that have disagreements and fail to communicate with one another are traveling a road that may lead to consequences that affect the entire family. When circumstances become violent and disrespectful it is time to think of the children and take steps to protect them. Staying together for the sake of the children is not nearly as important as reassuring the children that they are not responsible for any disagreements the parents have. Keeping a healthy attitude and relationship with your children will demonstrate that you want to practice good parenting skills. This is not the time to expect the children to choose one parent over the other. Stay on neutral ground, even if doing it is difficult. Talk to your children and reassure them of your continuing love and commitment to look after their physical needs. Let them express their concerns. Answer their questions truthfully and help them to understand. They possibly have friends with divorced or separated parents. Give them a reason to trust you still. Continue to be a good parent and practice the skills of effective parenting. I would love to hear from you. Please leave a comment.
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