As a grandparent, there is a certain rite of passage in regards to spending time with grandchildren.  Most times, grandparent visits are happy occasions where the grandchild and senior parent bond.  Grandparents rejoice in witnessing their family grow, while inherently aiding in shaping their grandchild’s development.  Interaction between a grandparent and a grandchild is often a very beneficial relationship for the two, as well as a way to relieve the responsibility of parenting from the parents for a little while.

Through the evolution of the life cycle, the elder parent possesses wisdom and fortitude.  However, even grandparents can expand their leadership with thoughtful processes when dealing with grandchildren.  Establishing parent vs. grandparent authoritarian boundaries is important.  Interaction with grandchildren requires patience.  Children process information at different paces. Once grasped, the child may shower you will a host of questions. It is essential to make the grandchild feel valued; this will aid in their self-confidence.  Infancy to age two is a critical time in absorbing stimuli.  Talking, humming, or singing to your grandchild will capture their attention.  Include hand movements or dance while singing. Musical enjoyment can be further attained if you incorporate the child’s name into the song.  Reading to or along with your grandchild reinforces words and the story messages.  Games support reasoning and participation.

Frequently, grandparents assist in raising their grandchildren.  This becomes more than an occasional social visit.  Leading by example will help in rearing your grandchild.  Daily activities, like brushing teeth, can be done together.  Sorting and washing clothes teaches independence and helps with household chores. Being courteous to others or respecting another’s property can be learned and adopted.  Volunteer together at your local community center. Reinforcing the parents’ rules provides guidance and synergy. Your positive interaction ought to assist in the growth of a productive grandchild.